i want so badly to believe
May 29, 2010
there are times when i get really depressed about myself as a person.
i've had a few good friends that i've grown apart from. and now when i try to initiate conversations with them, it just kind of falls flat.
sometimes i get into these weird moods and i feel like if i were more interesting, people would actually want to keep in touch and they would actually reciprocate my efforts to try to start a conversation.
i know that that's ridiculous, because i'm awesome and i shouldn't need to prove myself to anyone etc etc. but really, if i was that good of a friend, then why would they stop talking to me?
my insecurity kills me sometimes.
and last night i was listening to "happier" on repeat and sobbing.
because i was just imagining how painful it would be to grow apart from the person that i care about the most.
and i know it's ridiculous, to imagine being dumped when there is absolutely no reason to do so, we're happy as clams, really.
and it's not something that i worry about. it just sucks to think about.
i don't think i could ever, ever trust anyone again.
i've had a few good friends that i've grown apart from. and now when i try to initiate conversations with them, it just kind of falls flat.
sometimes i get into these weird moods and i feel like if i were more interesting, people would actually want to keep in touch and they would actually reciprocate my efforts to try to start a conversation.
i know that that's ridiculous, because i'm awesome and i shouldn't need to prove myself to anyone etc etc. but really, if i was that good of a friend, then why would they stop talking to me?
my insecurity kills me sometimes.
and last night i was listening to "happier" on repeat and sobbing.
because i was just imagining how painful it would be to grow apart from the person that i care about the most.
and i know it's ridiculous, to imagine being dumped when there is absolutely no reason to do so, we're happy as clams, really.
and it's not something that i worry about. it just sucks to think about.
i don't think i could ever, ever trust anyone again.





























Comments:
chasingtomorrowsdreams: #1- as always, i adore your post. you always have the best graphics (:
#2- i've been where you are in a similar situation. actually, almost exactly in the same situation. and now i'm in the aftermath of it. and it sucks. don't lose your friends girl, you're going to need them.
X3shakeiitup: i like the one of the girl with the balloons :)
xSKYWAYxAVENUE:
fantastic post, as always(:
as for your situation, just know that you're not alone.I have a friend that I've grown apart from this year. I guess it started when school began way back in september and we were in different classes and the only class we had together was gym. we have the same lunch and *used* to sit together, until the principal made her move (long story). I'm not gonna go on and on about what else happened, but now we never talk to each other. she texts me once in a blue moon, but I never answer because theres nothing to talk about. she keeps secrets from me, lots of them. she might even like my ex, and she knows I still love him.
and. you're not alone in never wanting to trust anyone again. my ex made me that way, promised me a bunch of things and broke every single one of them. just know i've got through it and while this is the second time (we were together twice) I'm still here, arent I? (:
sorry this is so long.
nostalgicmemoriesxo: you da bestttt girly ;) lovely post. your pictures are always gorgeous. recommended! <3
cantstopmyshine: loovely!
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ShELBYxl0VES_SURVEYS:
Omg really like this post. Especially the Greek mythology graphic.
And I understand 100 % what you're feeling. I've grown apart from basically everyone. Once one of my newer friends fucked me over, I just distanced myself from everyone else to beat them to it. I often secretly wonder why everyone finds it so easy to leave me too. I try to find what's wrong with me, because it can't POSSIBLY always be them right? Wrong. It's high school, which I'm glad to be done with. Just know, you are enough and once you really stick that in your head, you'll realize it's them. I'm here to talk if you want. :)
JustLoveMeBack: love this. love the pictures :) & Just rember girlie, you dont need anyone in your life that doesnt need you in theirs. i recd
spare_key:
"oh feelings are funny things"
that right there sums up alot of things....
<3 keep your head up girl.
Aihimeko: You are amazing. I love your posts, and you seem like the kind of person I would love to get to know in real life. Don't let your insecurities bring you down. You have so many good qualities as a person. You are never alone.
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writinghands: Awesome post! YOu are awesome. ANd I feel the same way sometimes
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hopethatitglows: I completely understand what you're going through...I'm there right now as well.
I wish I had words of advice, but I sadly don't know what to do.
But know you're a great person and a great friend...sometimes the universe just drifts people apart for unseen reasons.
I hope the rest of your weekend went better, darling. <3
Mia_InWonderland: i really liked this post :)
confident_christine: My favorites are "What if the world was your canvas?" and the cute little boy in a penguin suit.
Halizzle94: I am in looooooooooooove with the Plao quote. IN LOVE!
Thank you so much for posting these beautiful inspirations!